Numbing cream, sex and orgasm denial

Numbing cream, sex and orgasm denial

Wine has weird effect on me. After a couple of sips, I start getting this faint physical feeling of arousal. If I continue to drink it, I actually get really horny. The effect tapers off after the first glass or two, probably because after two glasses I start to become tipsy (I know I know, I’m a lightweight). I suspect that this effect is caused by one of my fun guy friends, who used to have sex with me every once in a while until I moved here. Like a good Russian, he liked his drink. And like a good host, he knew that my drink of choice would be wine, so that’s what he served every time. I think I subconsciously associate wine with sex; in particular, very good sex.

Mr Kitty and I have a glass of wine with our dinner most days. I’ve learnt to ignore its arousing effect unless the situation calls for it. Mr Kitty, however, has also learnt to take advantage of it for his own purposes. He will sometimes start caressing me gently as we watch a film or a tv series. At first, I don’t usually notice what’s happening… all I know is that I’m getting a little hornier. The end result is often that he’s forced to pleasure me, but still doesn’t get unlocked.

Last night we had one such situation, except I unlocked him. I really needed cock but I had no need for being filled with cum this time, and I definitely didn’t want my slave to orgasm. Luckily, there’s more than one way to maintain orgasm denial. ;P

Enter the lidocaine cream. For those who don’t know, lidocaine is a commonly used local anaesthetic, generally used topically for relief from pain and itching. Apply it to a penis, and the feeling will vary from slight numbness (as in premature ejaculation treatments), to complete loss of sensation, depending on the strength.

In our case, we used enough 5% lidocaine cream that he could feel his cock very faintly, but not enough to feel any pleasure at all. In his own words: “It feels like I’m using a strap on”. To keep the hard on without the pleasure, he also took some Viagra.

I was very tired so all I needed was a quick fuck and then sleep. And yet, somehow, the sex turned out to be amazing.

I first made him go down on me, to allow the Viagra enough time to kick in. I’ve said it before, but I’m so proud of Mr Kitty’s skills. I made him go on for a while until I was just about to orgasm, and then I made him stop. It was time for a good fuck.

We used a condom in case any of the cream hadn’t absorbed properly, so that it wouldn’t make me numb like him. He didn’t have any way of knowing how deep he was going other than by watching my reaction. Result: very hard, deep fucking. I liked that. Because of the tongue service, my first orgasm happened very quickly, and it was really intense.

I then made him go down on me again… because I could. Again, I got close enough to orgasm but decided to move onto using my fingers, while he sucked on my boobs and caressed me everywhere. I love it when he does that. Then something strange happened, which has been happening more often in recent times. I had this weird, drawn out, extremely intense succession of orgasms, where I thought it was over and then I’d get another one. I don’t even know how many I had. It was unbelievable. I was so wet by the end of it that he might as well have cum in me. My mouth was dry and I was exhausted but perfectly relaxed. My lovely slave brought me water, as he knows to do after great sex.

“Time to get locked up.”

Of course, that was wishful thinking, as I knew that with the Viagra it would take him a long time to shrink enough to get back into his cage. Luckily, the numbing cream would prevent him from trying to wank, and he knows better than to do that anyway.

 

6 thoughts on “Numbing cream, sex and orgasm denial

  1. I’ve never tried playing with Viagra, but it’s something both of us are interested in… It really seems like a lot of fun!

  2. Until now me and my gf haven`t used numbing creams to play with. So when you guys use it do you need to “combine” it with Viagra? I mean does his (yours) 🙂 penis go soft if you are not using Viagra? I have read that a lot of people use Emla creme – any experience with it?

    1. We’ve never actually tried without the viagra because we’d rather not risk him going soft halfway through due to a lack of sensation. I’d imagine that it depends on the person. For us, it’s also a case of using up the viagra that we have, which was prescribed through a little misunderstanding and Mr Kitty took ages to work up the courage to tell his doctor that he didn’t need it!

      I’m afraid I’ve no experience with Emla cream. It seems to be 2.5% lidocaine and 2.5% prilocaine. Assuming prilocaine is about as strong as lidocaine, I don’t see why it wouldn’t work. As far as I know, here (UK) 5% lidocaine cream is prescription-only, but Emla cream is over the counter. If you try it and it works well, let me know for when we run out! =]

  3. Thank you for your answer & ok I see… will order Emla this week and let us see how it goes with no Viagra. I think the main goal will be what quantity to apply to the penis. From the looks of it it will be a lot of trial and error 🙂

  4. Lovely post! We will often use numbing spray (lidocaine) as well and often in conjunction with a cock sleeve. Talk about not feeling it. it allows mistress K. to get fucked as hard and for as long as she wants without me having to stop to prevent an unauthorized orgasm.

  5. This sounds incredibly, wonderfully wicked, cruel and so arousing! I love the thought of being subjected to this. To get to fuck the lady, and to give her more orgasms, and more intense than ever before, yet be unable to feel that the magic of her body and the incredible explosion that I would want so much, and with the ultimate frustration of the cage at the end of it…

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